I’ve been trying to slow down a bit lately, and take time to myself that isn’t necessarily business or house related. It’s hard for me not to start a handful of projects during each bit of free time that I find during the day. But I realized that when I don’t take a break from my work, I don’t have the energy to feel inspired & I fall into a creative rut. Every so often I start to wonder if I’m heading in the right direction in all aspects of my life. Where should I put more time, energy, money, love? Where can I afford to? What is most important?
I came across this great book a few months ago. Initially it was a gift for Michael, but I’ll admit that I’ve sort of claimed it as my own at this point. It’s written by Gretchen Rubin, who also wrote “The Happiness Project”. Though I haven’t read that book, I find that she touches on it a bit in this one, and “Happier at Home” is much more suitable for me right now. It covers a number of areas of her life that she evaluates & redefines, and then creates tasks for herself to help draw more attention to (and enjoyment from) them. Possessions, marriage, parenthood, body, interior design, neighborhood, family, time, etc. I’m only partway through, but I find that when I read for a while, I’m inspired to walk around our house and create projects for myself. The difference here is, I don’t feel stressed about these projects. I’m not lacking ideas. I’m removing clutter, in every sense of the word, so that I can focus on the things that I want to be present.
One of the tasks that she choose for herself to help sort the precious, meaningful things that she owned from the stuff that she has no real attachment to, was to create miniature ‘shrines’ throughout her house. Collections that she might have previously had stored away that she wanted to appreciate more. I thought this was so nice. I have a shelf like this in my studio, and while it wasn’t arranged after reading that part of the book, it is a favorite space of mine. It’s nice to see a shelf full of items that make you smile or relive a certain memory, and I can’t wait to revisit all of the shelves and dresser tops in our house.
Have a wonderfully full weekend everyone! And go read this book- you won’t be disappointed!